Self Love is the Real Reason I said goodbye.

We Aren’t a Fit: I Saw the Truth in You, and I Didn’t Like What I Saw

Let me start by saying something that may not be easy to hear, but it's the truth: sometimes, when we say goodbye to someone, it’s not out of malice or a fleeting emotion—it’s because we saw something deeper that made us realize we’re just not meant to be in each other’s lives anymore.

When I walked away, it wasn’t just about the surface-level misunderstandings or those minor disagreements that fade over time. No, this goodbye was born from a deeper truth—something I saw within you that made me question our connection at the core.

You might think that I’m just holding onto bitterness or misunderstanding, but that’s not it. When we connect with people, we often have a deep, intuitive sense of who they truly are—beyond the masks they wear, beyond the pleasant smiles and sweet words. And when I took a moment to really see you, I noticed things that didn’t sit right with my soul.

Maybe it was the inconsistency in your actions or the dishonesty that crept into our interactions. Maybe it was the lack of respect or the way your energy shifted in a way that didn’t feel aligned with mine. But whatever it was, it became clear that the truth I was seeing in you no longer aligned with the person I wanted to share my time, energy, and heart with.

Let’s be honest—sometimes we have to be brutally honest with ourselves. The truth doesn’t always look like we expect it to, and it doesn’t always feel good. But it’s better to see it, acknowledge it, and walk away than to keep pretending everything is fine when we know it’s not.

And here’s the thing: it doesn’t make you a bad person. It doesn’t mean you’re unworthy of love or respect. It simply means that we’re not the right fit for each other. And that's okay. It’s okay to outgrow people, to realize that their energy no longer serves you, or to come to the painful conclusion that there’s a disconnect that cannot be bridged.

Walking away was a decision I made for my own peace, for my own growth, and for my own alignment with what I need in my life. And while I may have seen something in you that wasn’t a match for me, that doesn’t mean you won’t find someone who sees you differently. We all have different journeys, different paths, and different people who will reflect our truths back to us in ways that make sense.

Sometimes, walking away is the best thing we can do for ourselves. If I said goodbye to you, it’s because I saw the truth in you—something deep within that didn’t resonate with my soul. It wasn’t about petty disagreements or superficial issues, but a deeper realization that we weren’t a fit. I felt a disconnect, maybe in your actions, energy, or words, that no longer aligned with my values. Self-care means recognizing when a relationship is draining rather than nourishing, and sometimes that means choosing to walk away. Letting go isn’t always easy, but it’s necessary for personal growth and peace. It’s not about right or wrong—it’s about recognizing when a relationship no longer serves your highest good. And sometimes, the truth is simply that we’re meant to go our separate ways.

So if you ever find yourself wondering why I walked away, now you know. It wasn’t out of anger or hatred. It was because I saw the truth—and the truth told me we weren’t meant to walk the same path. And that’s not just okay—both of us must find what truly aligns with our souls.

In the end, it’s not about being right or wrong; it’s about finding peace, growth, and the people who are meant to walk beside you as you navigate the complexities of life. We each deserve that.

And sometimes, letting go is the only way to make room for what’s truly meant to come next.

Lisa LaJoie

Lisa Lajoie is a celebrated Metaphysical Mentor and Psychic Medium and Business Intuitive.  Lisa assists business owners and leaders to reach their highest potential with her proven methods and intuitive gifts.  Lisa offers Soul healing, Channelled Readings, Astrology and Human Design Session, Mentorship, Event Retreats and Spiritual Courses and is a sought-after Speaker. Contact Lisa at [email protected] to learn how to live your most fulfilling life energetically.